13 October 2007 . 11:00 AM

PMS
For couples, girls are usually the one who starts the fights and arguments. This usually occur when the girl is having their PMS. Guys thinks PMS is an excuse for girls to back up stuff. But NO, PMS is not an excuse at times. Through scientific researchers, it's proven that for some girls during their PMS, their personality changes. They often become very sensitive and moody, always down and miserable and acts like she's the queen for the day and you have to please her. This is one thing that guys usually get confused with, they think that girls are so fussy. Fussy as in they want everything their way.

Girls are FUSSY!
Yup, usually the girl want to win in every relationship, they will NEVER like it if the guy wins. But to the girls, do you think you will be happy if you're in your boyfriend's shoe being the one who always lose? NO, you will definitely hate it. Sometimes you have to just give in! the world doesn't revolve around only you. It's not like you are the miss world and everything should and must go your way. Girls tend to cry if they don't win anything, yeah, that happened to me before a long time ago, and let me tell you what, IT IS CHILDISH. Using tears to win is winning out of sympathy, if you wanna win it? win it by truth. Although I am a single person, but this happens a lot as from I heard from friends, relatives and even family.

Are you still studying?
It is very normal for somebody in high school to be in a relationship. But ask yourself HONESTLY, will you be with him/her for more than 3 years? answers are usually yes when you're deeply and madly in love with them, but later on you will think NO. One in thousands will have a relationship last from teen hood to adulthood. And what is the advantage you gain from being in a relationship this young? it's puppy love, admit it. Your parents are the one treating your girlfriends when you need to treat her for almost everything ( for guys that is ). As a Malaysian guy, if you don't treat your girlfriend and end up dutching everything with her, her parents might think that you're a loser. So the best is, not being in a relationship before you work ( even part-time counts ) and CONCENTRATE on your studies, but if you think being in a relationship helps you more in studying, go ahead. =). People usually have different personalities when they're a teenager and when they're an adult. So it's more safe to get to know the person FULLY before you get into a relationship with him/her.

Workaholics
Workaholics tend to have a organized plan, like they would go confess to their dream girl after they achieved their super high pay. Thinking that with the money the girl will live happier without worries. IT'S ALL WRONG! what if the girl suddenly falls in love with somebody else. WHAT IF the girl liked you but you kept concentrating on your work and neglects her and then sooner or later she found someone new, someone whom is better than you are. Can you possibly endure that kind of pain, even if you achieved your goals, what is left of you is NOTHING but cash, and something bad like girls sticking to you for your wealth might happen too. So, please.. even if the money you earn is not that much.. but with a stable income that can feed you and her, it's enough to be with her. *coughs* of course do not tackle a girl when you're dead poor, you'll bring misery to her life.

Ego guys
Thinking yourself as a unlucky girl because you fell in love with a ego guy? don't be, because most guys are like that. If you found one guy that isn't thick skinned, please consider yourself DAMN LUCKY. The ego guys usually see themselves very highly, what you can do is talk with him, although it will be a little like grandma nagging but you can't give in to him every time. And dear ego guys, your girlfriend needs some "face" too. It isn't only about you alright. Please, don't treat her like your slave. Don't force her to do stuff she doesn't want to. Don't let her make the first move, MAKE THE FIRST MOVE YOURSELF! If she asks for a break up, you know you love her, but you agreed with it when she want to hear you say please don't go, because I love you really much. Then you're pure dumb. All you care is about your thick skinned face, and that's selfish.

Thats all ^^. This post is based on a 15 year old female's mind. So it might not be right, but this is from my view. =D. No offense alright?

Jamie
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